There is no meme. Trans women and lesbians are not to be fetishized
By - Fagotron96
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Same thing in reverse. Gay men aren't just for straight girls to fall in love with.
couldn't be more right. it annoys me when there's a group of cishet girls having a bachelor party at the gay bar like shut the fuck up we fought so we had our own space and now you are being loud drunk and hitting on the gay bartender.
I had a conversation with my mom, and she said that she remembered back in the day when Will and Grace was a new and very popular, many many of the fans wanted Will to get with Grace, seemingly wanting the gay to just not apply there or something. Luckily the showrunners had enough integrity to not write that in.
(I say back in the day but that was only what like 20 years ago?)
The show is slightly older than I am, so to me that counts as “back in the day”
Yep also why are fucking 12 year old girls into yaoi just why, why is that the main demographic
I mean I think gay guys also like it because most IRL gay porn is suuper low quality but like there is so much cringe yaoi fanfics by teenage girls its unbelievable.
yeah, I’m a gay guy in my teens and I like yaoi, mostly because I enjoy romance stories but can’t find many MLM books at the local library. Yaoi is good because it’s easily accessible and there’s endless amounts of it, but some of the stories available do come off quite fetishizing, which I can’t stand.
But yes thats true as a pansexual dude I do think that some yaoi is pretty good
yeah yaoi is good when its by and for the gays
same goes with lesbian porn
I knew someone like that in middle school... She had a shirt that said "kawaii in the street, senpai in the sheets" and somehow none of the staff ever noticed or cared
Just by picturing the shirt I cringed so hard
Oh what the actual hell 😭
Depressingly (according to Wikipedia at least) yaoi or BL is written mostly by straight women for a straight female audience. It’s quite ironic.
Because people are terrible.
Nobody gets to fetishize me other than me
when somebody fetishizes me: ;}
when somebody fetishizes a broad group of people I'm a part of: angy }:I
very valid of u ma'am
That’s the same policy I have about killing me
Also gay dudes are not woman’s fantasies and don’t have to be fetishized, dam , just don’t be weird don’t fetishiz lgbtq+ ppl
You could remove the lgbtq+ part and it would apply, don’t fetishize people
This is absolutely true but really messed me up when I was still in the closet. I kept finding myself drawn to lesbian creators or trans women, and was so fixated on wlw relationships. I just felt like I was a gross straight cis guy fetishizing, I had no frame of reference for the fact that the things I was fixating on aren’t a straight guy’s fantasy! They fantasize about being the exception, not one of the women, they’re not drawn to the relationship itself, they’re drawn to the sexual aspect. I wish someone had told me!
biiiiiitch holy shit same. it clicked when i realized most straight men are imagining themselves joining in, not being one of the women onscreen
someone once told me that all lesbian porn should be POV so guys stop watching it, i though that would be a good solution to this problem we trans girls sometimes have before acceptance.
I mean sure
I would do the same for MlM relationships
people shouldn't fetishize another's mere existence
and its reeeaallly creepy to see my existence labeled as a porn category, especialy when the majority of people watching and making the content are not lesbian.
ok but what if the bottom two sentences get washed off
that’d be not good
I think if the top two sentences got washed off that would be equally bad
or if just "to" was washed off
But if the first and last one get washed off it’s not that bad
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On lewd websites lesbian always shows up under the straight category
Roughly 5 categorys would work
Gay | Lesbian
Trans | Trans
If we're going to differentiate let's do it functionally so we can get it working right
I have mirror touch synesthesia so when I see people I 'share senses' with them - so it's like an insert into those vessels
my solution is to make all lesbian porn pov so the straight middle aged men and 12 year old boys say "thats so gay" and stop watching it.
Wholesome ending: pre-transition straight boy enjoys it and realizes she was a transbian all along
I can already feel the overwhelming melting feeling 💜🥰🥺
Is you fetishized a human who doesn’t even like/didn’t give consent you, get out of the social media for ever and just think of what you did
Why tf is this shit fetishized tbh my fantasy is to run away somewhere with my s/o, live in a cottage, cook food together, watch tv and make out a lot 💀🖐🏻
I mean, dont fetishsize any one
I'm ace and enby, so it makes sense that I don't get it. But I really just don't get the straight male attraction to lesbians. Like, these two people are not attracted you and paired up with someone else and are making that ABUNDANTLY clear. Shouldn't that be a big turn-off? Why is that exciting, but gay men or a gay man coming on to them will provoke a violently negative reaction?
It's all so weird. Y'all and your desires that aren't companionship or cuddling, hehe.
I think it’s something like “What’s hotter than one girl? Two girls.” But I could be way off since I’m a grey-ace lesbian.
You're definitely correct on this front. There's also a fairly gross fantasy that some men have where they think that they could turn a gay woman straight and they want to "step up to the challenge." Think of the classic, "Hey, you ladies wanna have a threesome?." On a more innocent note, it could also be because they don't wanna see a dick in their porn. Not super great justification, but it's far less toxic IMO.
>On a more innocent note, it could also be because they don't wanna see a dick in their porn.
That was my reasoning, until I realized I'm trans. Now.. no comment.. >.>
you know, i thought that was my mindset until i realized i really just deeply wished i was a lesbian girl lmao
the trans experience
For me it’s because I don’t want to see penises when I jack off, but I might be different in that regard because I don’t imagine myself having sex either (while watching porn), therefore I don’t have the fantasy of “joining in” unlike many others.
I also don’t objectify lesbians irl.
What happened to their eye? It scared me.
they just rolled iy under thier eyelid
Yeah, I know. It was a rhetorical question, lol
That person really doesn’t want us to know their eye color
You have earned my respect, girl
Yes. You can have fantasies about that, I really don't give a fuck, doesn't affect anyone, but fetishizing them is very weird. Lesbians are normal girls. Who just like girls. Some are crazy and insane and others are not.
It makes me so mad that most people automatically think about some porn categories when they find out I’m bi, nope, I’m not a porn category, nope, I’m not existing for your pleasure, nope I don’t automatically want a threesome with everyone. Porn really hurt the LGBT+ community.
I read "Queer women do not exist. To be a straight man's fantasy". I was so confused.
Queer women do not exist
Cut the bottom half and it’s based
I missed out the "to" in the image (multiple times) and it drastically broke the message. My reading skills leave something to be desired lol
the person in the pic is literaly herobrine
we're not sex objects, that's why
okay lets give you an example
top pan communities on reddit r/pansexual r/PansexualMemes r/pansexuality
top gay communities on reddit r/gay r/gay_irl r/gaymemes
top bi communities on reddit r/bisexual r/BisexualTeens r/bisexualmemes
top lesbian communities on reddit r/lesbian r/lesbiangif r/LesbianActually
top trans communities on reddit r/trans r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns r/Traps
do you see the problem?
not only is it annoyingly upfront, its really creepy too. not to mention demeaning and rude
This is pretty sexist
You mean how?
Avoided the question
It's clearly targeting men.
Yes. Its targetting middle aged men who fetishise lesbians because theyre seen as objects and not actual people
No it's Targeting men. The rest is just assumption.
Its literally saying straight men shouldn't fetishise lesbians. Please fuck off
So you're shaming men, straight men, Kink shaming.
You're such a hypocrite.
Its not a kink, its a fetish
Then they wouldnt be "straight men"
Unless its from a TERF but their opinions dont matter
That was basically the case with me and I’m sure there’s others like me, but most of the fetishization definitely comes from cishet guys.
This is a non answer, it's less than redundant. Like your brain.
I can't even imagine the expensive therapy your perants must have put you through just to make you functional. And you're still retarded.