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There is no meme. Trans women and lesbians are not to be fetishized

There is no meme. Trans women and lesbians are not to be fetishized

ImaginaryTutor

My fantasy is for everyone to be happy and for everyone to give me food and cuddles


comfort_bot_1962

You're Awesome!


ImaginaryTutor

Good bot have a cookie


Hufflepuff-Horcrux

could...could i have a cookie? or a cuddle? you said you liked cuddles


ImaginaryTutor

Yes you can have both


Shakespeare-Bot

Mine own figure is f'r everyone to beest joyous and f'r everyone to giveth me food and cuddles *** ^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.) Commands: `!ShakespeareInsult`, `!fordo`, `!optout`


xxjaydenlovexx

Et tu, bot


NexxusDrako

Good bot


comfort_bot_1962

Nice!


OurTaleChara

Same thing in reverse. Gay men aren't just for straight girls to fall in love with.


Fagotron96

couldn't be more right. it annoys me when there's a group of cishet girls having a bachelor party at the gay bar like shut the fuck up we fought so we had our own space and now you are being loud drunk and hitting on the gay bartender.


AmyTennant

I had a conversation with my mom, and she said that she remembered back in the day when Will and Grace was a new and very popular, many many of the fans wanted Will to get with Grace, seemingly wanting the gay to just not apply there or something. Luckily the showrunners had enough integrity to not write that in. (I say back in the day but that was only what like 20 years ago?)


BEEEELEEEE

The show is slightly older than I am, so to me that counts as “back in the day”


LastFlamingo3549

Yep also why are fucking 12 year old girls into yaoi just why, why is that the main demographic


Fagotron96

I mean I think gay guys also like it because most IRL gay porn is suuper low quality but like there is so much cringe yaoi fanfics by teenage girls its unbelievable.


LastFlamingo3549

Frfr


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yeah, I’m a gay guy in my teens and I like yaoi, mostly because I enjoy romance stories but can’t find many MLM books at the local library. Yaoi is good because it’s easily accessible and there’s endless amounts of it, but some of the stories available do come off quite fetishizing, which I can’t stand.


LastFlamingo3549

But yes thats true as a pansexual dude I do think that some yaoi is pretty good


Fagotron96

yeah yaoi is good when its by and for the gays same goes with lesbian porn


LastFlamingo3549

💀🖐🏻


RexIsAMiiCostume

I knew someone like that in middle school... She had a shirt that said "kawaii in the street, senpai in the sheets" and somehow none of the staff ever noticed or cared


whoredead

Just by picturing the shirt I cringed so hard


LastFlamingo3549

Oh what the actual hell 😭


zeTwig

Depressingly (according to Wikipedia at least) yaoi or BL is written mostly by straight women for a straight female audience. It’s quite ironic.


LastFlamingo3549

WHY


zeTwig

Because people are terrible.


LastFlamingo3549

True


0GHAZE03

Nobody gets to fetishize me other than me


Fagotron96

when somebody fetishizes me: ;} when somebody fetishizes a broad group of people I'm a part of: angy }:I


0GHAZE03

very valid of u ma'am


BEEEELEEEE

That’s the same policy I have about killing me


I_Like_Cat_Boys

Also gay dudes are not woman’s fantasies and don’t have to be fetishized, dam , just don’t be weird don’t fetishiz lgbtq+ ppl


KittenStamp

You could remove the lgbtq+ part and it would apply, don’t fetishize people


I_Like_Cat_Boys

Tru


Unspaceman

This is absolutely true but really messed me up when I was still in the closet. I kept finding myself drawn to lesbian creators or trans women, and was so fixated on wlw relationships. I just felt like I was a gross straight cis guy fetishizing, I had no frame of reference for the fact that the things I was fixating on aren’t a straight guy’s fantasy! They fantasize about being the exception, not one of the women, they’re not drawn to the relationship itself, they’re drawn to the sexual aspect. I wish someone had told me!


bweepis

biiiiiitch holy shit same. it clicked when i realized most straight men are imagining themselves joining in, not being one of the women onscreen


Fagotron96

someone once told me that all lesbian porn should be POV so guys stop watching it, i though that would be a good solution to this problem we trans girls sometimes have before acceptance.


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Fagotron96

I mean sure I would do the same for MlM relationships people shouldn't fetishize another's mere existence and its reeeaallly creepy to see my existence labeled as a porn category, especialy when the majority of people watching and making the content are not lesbian.


sylveon_souperstar

ok but what if the bottom two sentences get washed off that’d be not good


Greenfollower

I think if the top two sentences got washed off that would be equally bad


ThLegend28

or if just "to" was washed off


Imminent_tragedy

But if the first and last one get washed off it’s not that bad


MTT_brand_queer

Photo belongs to @mattxiv on Instagram! Check him out, he’s pretty cool.


AsterRapt0r

Bibrow


TheLivingVoid

On lewd websites lesbian always shows up under the straight category Roughly 5 categorys would work Straight Gay | Lesbian Trans | Trans If we're going to differentiate let's do it functionally so we can get it working right I have mirror touch synesthesia so when I see people I 'share senses' with them - so it's like an insert into those vessels


Fagotron96

my solution is to make all lesbian porn pov so the straight middle aged men and 12 year old boys say "thats so gay" and stop watching it.


whoredead

Wholesome ending: pre-transition straight boy enjoys it and realizes she was a transbian all along


TheLivingVoid

I can already feel the overwhelming melting feeling 💜🥰🥺


rateatd

Is you fetishized a human who doesn’t even like/didn’t give consent you, get out of the social media for ever and just think of what you did


LastFlamingo3549

Why tf is this shit fetishized tbh my fantasy is to run away somewhere with my s/o, live in a cottage, cook food together, watch tv and make out a lot 💀🖐🏻


No-Car-2719

I mean, dont fetishsize any one


KoboldCommando

I'm ace and enby, so it makes sense that I don't get it. But I really just don't get the straight male attraction to lesbians. Like, these two people are not attracted you and paired up with someone else and are making that ABUNDANTLY clear. Shouldn't that be a big turn-off? Why is that exciting, but gay men or a gay man coming on to them will provoke a violently negative reaction? It's all so weird. Y'all and your desires that aren't companionship or cuddling, hehe.


BEEEELEEEE

I think it’s something like “What’s hotter than one girl? Two girls.” But I could be way off since I’m a grey-ace lesbian.


ArcticKingFisher

You're definitely correct on this front. There's also a fairly gross fantasy that some men have where they think that they could turn a gay woman straight and they want to "step up to the challenge." Think of the classic, "Hey, you ladies wanna have a threesome?." On a more innocent note, it could also be because they don't wanna see a dick in their porn. Not super great justification, but it's far less toxic IMO.


BowsettesBottomBitch

>On a more innocent note, it could also be because they don't wanna see a dick in their porn. That was my reasoning, until I realized I'm trans. Now.. no comment.. >.>


bweepis

you know, i thought that was my mindset until i realized i really just deeply wished i was a lesbian girl lmao the trans experience


Avrangor

For me it’s because I don’t want to see penises when I jack off, but I might be different in that regard because I don’t imagine myself having sex either (while watching porn), therefore I don’t have the fantasy of “joining in” unlike many others. I also don’t objectify lesbians irl.


CrazyDiamond156

What happened to their eye? It scared me.


Fagotron96

they just rolled iy under thier eyelid


CrazyDiamond156

Yeah, I know. It was a rhetorical question, lol


Amelia-F-Jones

That person really doesn’t want us to know their eye color


CPlushProductions

You have earned my respect, girl


BackgroundArt2

Yes. You can have fantasies about that, I really don't give a fuck, doesn't affect anyone, but fetishizing them is very weird. Lesbians are normal girls. Who just like girls. Some are crazy and insane and others are not.


Ice-and-Iron

It makes me so mad that most people automatically think about some porn categories when they find out I’m bi, nope, I’m not a porn category, nope, I’m not existing for your pleasure, nope I don’t automatically want a threesome with everyone. Porn really hurt the LGBT+ community.


momogfunk

I read "Queer women do not exist. To be a straight man's fantasy". I was so confused.


HeyDune

Queer women do not exist


_Aveyonn_

Cut the bottom half and it’s based


preeminentlexa

I missed out the "to" in the image (multiple times) and it drastically broke the message. My reading skills leave something to be desired lol


Chesnaught_PH

the person in the pic is literaly herobrine


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Why not?


Di-SiThePotato

we're not sex objects, that's why


Fagotron96

okay lets give you an example top pan communities on reddit r/pansexual r/PansexualMemes r/pansexuality top gay communities on reddit r/gay r/gay_irl r/gaymemes top bi communities on reddit r/bisexual r/BisexualTeens r/bisexualmemes top lesbian communities on reddit r/lesbian r/lesbiangif r/LesbianActually top trans communities on reddit r/trans r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns r/Traps do you see the problem? not only is it annoyingly upfront, its really creepy too. not to mention demeaning and rude


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This is pretty sexist


imthatpeep100

Why?


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You mean how?


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Avoided the question


[deleted]

It's clearly targeting men.


[deleted]

Yes. Its targetting middle aged men who fetishise lesbians because theyre seen as objects and not actual people


[deleted]

No it's Targeting men. The rest is just assumption.


[deleted]

Its literally saying straight men shouldn't fetishise lesbians. Please fuck off


[deleted]

So you're shaming men, straight men, Kink shaming. You're such a hypocrite.


[deleted]

Its not a kink, its a fetish


imthatpeep100

How?


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[deleted]

Then they wouldnt be "straight men" Unless its from a TERF but their opinions dont matter


BEEEELEEEE

That was basically the case with me and I’m sure there’s others like me, but most of the fetishization definitely comes from cishet guys.


[deleted]

This is a non answer, it's less than redundant. Like your brain. I can't even imagine the expensive therapy your perants must have put you through just to make you functional. And you're still retarded.